PinkyBond 与 Selin：以同意为先的上下文与未经许可的跟踪
Our verdict
Selin 允许男性在没有伴侣参与或同意的情况下跟踪她的周期。PinkyBond 需要她通过 PinkyBloom 明确同意。这就是关系工具与监视工具之间的区别。Selin 没有加密、没有安全模式，也没有让她控制你所看到内容的机制。
Feature comparison
| Feature | PinkyBond | Selin |
|---|---|---|
| Price | Free | Free with ads / ~$4.99/mo |
| Made specifically for partners | ||
| Direct connection to her tracker | ||
| End-to-end encryption | ||
| Safety Mode | ||
| AI-powered insights | ||
| Gesture cards (60+) | ||
| Bidirectional mood sharing | ||
| Cycle education hub | Basic | |
| Connection streaks | ||
| Bridge messages | ||
| Monthly recap cards | ||
| Requires her consent | ||
| Data stored on servers | Encrypted blobs only | Unencrypted |
Overview
Selin 是一款为男性设计的月经跟踪器。你手动输入她的周期日期，Selin 会给你预测和建议。根本问题在于：它根本不需要她的参与。你可以在她不知情或未同意的情况下跟踪她的周期。
PinkyBond 采取相反的方法。她从 PinkyBloom 开始分享。她决定你看到什么。她可以随时暂停、修改或撤销访问。PinkyBond 是建立在同意基础上的。Selin 是建立在观察基础上的。
Privacy and encryption
Selin has no encryption and no consent mechanism. A man can create an account, enter estimated dates, and start “tracking” his partner without her knowledge. The data is stored on Selin’s servers in readable form.
PinkyBond cannot function without her participation. The pairing process requires in-person QR code scanning. Everything she shares is encrypted with AES-256-GCM. She has Safety Mode to send synthetic data if she feels unsafe. The entire architecture is consent-first.
The experience
Selin 根据手动输入的日期提供基本的日历预测。没有 AI 洞察、没有手势建议、没有双向分享、没有桥接消息。这只是一个带有情绪预测的日历。
PinkyBond 提供直接来自 PinkyBloom 的实时上下文、60+ 手势卡、桥接消息、周期教育中心和双向情绪分享。这是一个关系工具，而不是一个日历。
How to switch from Selin
如果你正在使用 Selin，我们鼓励你与伴侣讨论一下 PinkyBond。问问她是否愿意通过 PinkyBloom 分享。这个对话本身就是一种尊重，而 Selin 的设计从未要求你这样做。
Frequently asked questions
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